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Ill blink and its 1am. We have our suns, moons, venus and mars all the same sign and his neptune falls into my 12th house. Their is so much fear between us. Best wishes to you dear, you will find the right one for you, be patient and don't accept anything less! It is spiritual for both people, but sometimes this is why the relationships seem to be so painful if they end. Am thankful that noting bad occurred from him, but there was the feeling that he could and would hurt me. My 12th house Saturn conjunct his NN and His Chiron and Saturn conjunct my NN. i had experience with a guy who have 4 benefic planets in my 12th house. The 12th house is karmic for both for good or not so good both come through this house.:). Maybe we should all listen to our inner voices; intuitively we always KNOW who is bad or good. Someone may be misinterpreting something. His Mars is conjunct my Moon and North Lunar Node which made it all the more compelling; his Neptune/Scorpio (which is Retrograde) is conjunct my 5th House Venus, and his Uranus and Pluto fall in my 3rd House where my IC is. I can confirm that he appears in my dreams often and usually these are precognitive dreams. The Venus person gets all silly lovestruck everytime they see their object of desire. I feel like I know this person really well but maybe this relationship is build on misunderstandings and confusion? The 12th House!! Venus, in the 8th house in synastry, reveals a bitter relationship between partners. When we are together its like time is nothing. Where your Venus falls in your partner's chart shows where you bring these energies into their life. Thats an aspect of a battle between the Mars person & the 12th house person. For example, you may not be a needy person, but you find yourself being very needy or vulnerable around the house person. Otherwise we kind of don't touch. The sign over the 12th house also is a big signifier. I'm very new here so read at your own risk! Also with another friend who showed interest and I really just wanted to remain on a friend basis. I dont think I can give a uniform answer as to how planets behave in the other persons 12th house. This is because the two individuals want the same type of love relationship--they give and receive love in the same manner. Howd you get over him and stop thinking about him? Although this house offers both our soul mate or our enemy, along with our fears, phobias, and those things we that we do that undermine our happiness. This is especially true if that person's Venus is conjunct your ascendant (the more tightly conjunct, the stronger the attraction). what a selfish!so far i have involved in guys where my venus lied in their twelve house, it was love but felt like hidden agenda, holly crap! I felt this awful DREAD of him mixed in with the deep love longings that I held in my heart, and would just burst out CRYING whenever I felt his spirit coming near me. Because people that are confident don't usually like to point out other's weakness's or make them feel bad. I dream of him a lot. Sometimes because we were deluded by the other, sometimes because we deluded ourselves, or saw things that were not really there at all, we felt they were, but that's not what they were. Any planet in the 12th house is aiming for something beyond its grasp. He enjoyed the attention and games for sure and he had a Gemini ruled 12th house. We re still connected somehow bit in a weird way :(. As if something beyond ourself is guiding us.what is this shit, ive been asking me many many timesand is there a way to get over this?? His sun falls in my 8th and his moon in my 12th where my sun is. It's often the downfall of many relationships with planets here. Take it like a grain of salt and more of insecurity on their behalf. does the planet that falls in your 12th aspect anything else in your chart? And for that I am sorry you had to experience that. Sorry, Mr. Gemini . or I fail? I also have met two men, 1 in the past and the other one currently that many of my planets fall into their 12th house. I have found myself on a couple of occasions asking, "Why in the world did I just tell him that?" You say hes your EX-best friend. Feeling an intense attraction but beyond the physical, even that he was the personification for what I find attractive in the opposite sex. And there is a very strong square between his Mars and my own, which creates a lot of stress between us at times, and his Saturn is square my Venus. He was and is also a very adroit liar, and even though there was very great chemistry and connectedness between us, I had to end it. Being with your spouse causes you to become more reflective and thoughtful. He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me. Guess that his Sun/Gem didnt like me pursuing him, but he toyed with me from time to time as he was, natch, curious about how I worked. Sigh.. Knowflake. So strange in this 12th house. We have other aspects in synastry that are more positive, but the Mars issues come up a lot. Two+ years in most cases (which makes me want to just go HIDE in my bed under the covers, lol!) It is also present in my relationship. I think that aspect makes you see what you want to see in the other person, but not what is actually there. More so after 15 years. Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). In fact, Venus is considered another guru in astrology besides Jupiter, which become exalted in the most spiritual sign Pisces. Its a bit of a puzzle, really, and I may not be explaining it clearly, but I do see what you mean, Elsa, in mirroring tendencies. Lesson learned: let the men pick ME instead of the other way around. He s got a new girl in his life and I wish him well! It is because mars is a harsher planet? I also have a stellium of 5 planets in my 8th house so I tend to be highly intuitive already. Now, I broke off the friendship and he can't contact me. And with that 12th house influence and everything I read about Mars in 12th house I started asking myself if I should stay away from him. was it really necessary to get hurt in a same manner once again after 7 years? He indeed often told me that we do have a strong connection. 12th house synastry is way too murky for me to tangle with. The 12th house rules things. He acts like hes in love with me, he acts like he cares deeply for me, hes there for me and has even held me while I cried. The 12th house Synastry: Love behind the scenes. And ever since we started communicating I have that strange feeling of telepathic connection between us.Is it possible that this 12th house influence works so strong with people who never met in person?We don't know each other in RL and I don't know how that is going to work out when we meet.My Pluto square his Sun/Mars kazimi conjunction, within 0 degrees. November 9, 2012 astrologyanonymous27 5 Comments. we are creepy to them, but cant seem to let us go. I need help with my situation. and weirdly 12th house does later show the othher person to live in those shoes. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. Some are evil and just want to get in your pants. iRecently i have met a guy in my office whose north node conjuct my 12th house where is my moon and mars. Negatively, the planet person can use any of these fears as a way to control them, manipulate them or to use against them in some way. i guess if the house person is non-scorpionic, or less-scorpionic perhaps, they won't run away scared because they feel they are exposed, lol If the house person is heavy-scorpio people, hmm don't even think aboutt having relationship with this peeps, they will ruuuuunnnn away asap no matter how much you mean to them. Lifelong, apparently Dad was a Sun/Gemini, Mom was a Sun/Scorpio the WORST connective relationship ever! I trust everything happens for a reason! But afflicted venus indicates the negative effects of the venus/ neptune aspects. Hi GeminiRising! It proves that Venus is created for sharing purity, love, and spirituality in the world, when in a good state. It s killing me . My Pluto sextiles his Moon and Venus and opposes his NN. At least I know now that I'm not the only one spilling my water in the 12th house, lol. I am very partnered elsewhere in my life but looked up his chart because he feels like family or someone i knew in a past life or something. We've been seeing each other for over a month now. so i point it out, and im more aware. Oh lord: Hi, Steph sorry for the long delay in responding. Often, there is a distinct feeling of mistrust in these scenarios, especially on the part of the planet person. As he has moved on, you must do also. You will also find you share many of the same values, interests, and likes. The planet Venus takes its name from the Roman goddess of love, lust, beauty and fertility. Hanging onto him and wishing for return engagements may bring you much heartache, and even loss he might be a sociopath and if that is how he rolls you could lose much in the ways of material goods. I really felt that I WAS him that is, until he started bashing me mentally and spiritually. He never forgot and it almost feels like he is watching me closely on social media. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=29420, http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=14081. Sign up here! If he has Moon/Cancer, just know that you are dealing with an emotional and sensitive soul, which of course will make him insecure in his dealings with you. I never even considered he couldve liked me because everyone liked him and every time I think he tried to tell me I shut him down cause I didnt want to be one of his conquests. I believe it caused a lot of confusing both for him n I. and NO MORE 12TH HOUSE PARTNERS FOR ME!! My TWIN SIDE also is grateful, but is now more underground, and that may actually be a blessing, as I also began to mirror his BAD actions and ill temperaments. And I do, I don't ever want to judge or criticize him. I don't know where my venus falls in his chart. Yes, assumptions is one thing that takes place a lot in this house. . Maybe one person see's the other person as not measuring up to their standards. But Tabitha seems to attract controlling lovers (maybe she has Pluto in her 7th House). Men take longer to grow up emotionally. has Sun conjunct Saturn, they natrually have a hard time showing their affections and are very fatherly, 12th house gives you a very spiritual feeling almost like they could be your soulmate, it can be pretty intense ad consuming so if your not very spiritual/aware of yourself or in a good place in life, you might have a hard time feeling this energy or wanting to accept it, its different, its not so much lustful, its just friggin beautiful, you wanna make love to that person and cuddle them, i also have an empty 12th housei could love this energy so much possibly because aqua venuses that land there most of time trine my moon.i feel like if someones planets fall in 12th AND also aspect sun/moon/asc, youll be able to accept and recieve this awesome energy more. Be direct, ask questions, dig deep, ask for proof and confirmation. I was more into him from the very beginning I went after HIM and found out that he really resented it. Accept all plexaderm rapid reduction serum in india Manage preferences. It's true this house can be heavy, it's the house of hospitals, psychotherapist, prisons, too. There will defo be issues and concerns regarding faithlessness, as Gemini males are often butterflies flitting from flower to flower chasing that honey, lol!!! Good- have found your posting your threads really helpful to me too..trying to suss all this out too! Then when I tell him, he has this quiet way of breaking through all the **** and getting to the heart of it, but in a really gentle way. How do you think it would play out his Mars in 12th conjunct my Ascendant???. Possibly. Venus conjunct Venus is really good, you will like many of the same things and go about love a similar way. Yes I do think that it's a possibility with his Neptune in your 12th its a very intuitive and psychic connection. However I have to say until now he has been writing twice a year sending me wishes bday and Xmas. The general claim is that it disturbs the person whose twelfth house is activated. At least in a romantic situation, often what happens is that the house person doesn't "feel" or has a hard time seeing the love of the Venus person. 12th house isnt only secrecy and I rarely see it that way 12th house synastry is beyond limits. What he did to you was cowardly. Lol. He said, he hadn't and he just hoped we could be good friends when he returned. Hes not cold at all. Sun conjunct saturnSun conjunct venusSun conjunct mercury (double whammy)Sun conjunct sun, ------------------Gemini sun 12thCancer asc 1stTaurus moon 11thTaurus venus 11thLibra mars 3rdGemini mercury 11th, Copyright 2000-2013 I used to dream about them a lot. Im more of a silent reader but this one hit home, so I ll share my two cents. i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th. However, I have a group of planets that fall my husbands twelfth house and hes had no complaint with it. My Sun, Jupiter, and Mercury are in Gemini and fall in his 12th house. Those this mean that he's thinking about me a lot too? How does it affect synastry when one partners personal planets land in the others 12th house? I'm not all that great with articulating stuff that's not of this world. You need some fire. One good and beautiful thing between us which feels like the work of this placement is this soul journeying thing when we are physically together(i feel like when we are close its like we spark something off in each other which creates deep peace, ecstasy and brings us to feel our own souls thru each otherit is very healing)he says i relax him instantly. This is a really good match because it brings together romantic partners with similar ideas about how to approach life. I either lied to myself or the other was lying to me and it was very difficult and painful to deal with. Registered: May 2009. posted June 11, 2013 02:39 PM. Whats the deal? Please see special article on The 12th house synastry along with Neptune Moon Aspects for the descriptions will explain in greater detail. Venus in 10th House synastry relationships are formed in the field of business and professional life. And if they are thus planted in your 12th House, soon the fun begins with you feeling like you were run over by a truck or a fast-moving train. I'm so sad that he choose to be with someone else. Venus in the 12 th House The Venus person functions in a manner that increases the House person's self-confidence. I love everything about astrology. Elsa tried to warn me, but I couldnt hear. It is strange how much this makes sense: I have my moon in his 12 house and he's got his Neptune in my 12. He is much older than me, far better positioned, with flaws, yet a hero to me. Especially natal charts and composite charts. the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. It could be due to different things.. like the planet person is insecure/shy/doesn't wanna show their love in an open way, or just that the house person doesn't "get" the planet person's way of loving. My gemini sun, cancer north node are in my 12th.